Curious....when am I not, actually

I am always curious about the way people come up with the thoughts and actions they do. I really should go back to school for this crap, but anyways.....I have a friend who is going through a tough time with his girlfriend. The relationship really needs to come to an end for his sanitys sake. But it makes me think about dating in general. I am a single girl right now and have been for awhile and realize the crap you come across and the lines you are fed. I have to go off what I see of guys, since I have not been looking for a woman. So I see alot of guys say that they want that good girl, yet knows how to have fun. Or guys want that girl that will treat them like a king, but when they come across one its like its too good to be true so they dont accept it. And your left behind even though you offer them everything they are looking for. I am not an ugly girl, Im also not a super model. But Im not here to specificly discuss my views on idiotic dating problems...so why? Honestly, why ask for something when really your hoping for the slut who will be that way. I am not saying that there arent those kind of girls out there, but really you just need to settle for 2nd best. Horrible I know! So the reason I started this is....every girl just wants a good looking guy who will treat her like a queen. So my guy friend really is one of these guys, and this girl is telling him how she is CRAZY about him but doesnt know if she can be in a serious relationship ever again. And Im sorry but when your creeping really close to 40 you would think you would be thankful to find this. I just dont understand!!!!!!!!