Are you insane?!?!?!?!!?

There once was a boy, a cute little drummer boy, who was plagued by his charm. But he was a good hearted boy and true to his girl. But there were other girls, waiting. Ok, Im dying trying to make that into some sweet little fairy tale. Ready for the real deal......Theres this guy (I do my best to not name names just in case) who I know and originally had a crush on. And I may still crush on him, but know that he has a girlfriend and I value the friendship more than some ass. So this guy is honestly a great guy! He is a drummer and has girl throw themselves at him at times and I have to say some are, you know, not to bad. And he has a long distance thing going on with his girl. Well everyone needs friends and him and I have become pretty darn close. I really hate weeks that go by that I dont get to hang out with him cause he cracks me up. Well we have another friend thats always there to and we have become the great three.....ha. And its a great relationship! We can accept each other for exactly how things are. But there is one girl to be specific that just does not care, and I have somehow gotten in the middle of things. Being close to the band I know alot of the people that are regulars that see them. This one girl gravitated to me and of course I was nice. Shes a great girl, but drunk one night she was talking to me and I mentioned that I had crushed on the drummer but not anymore. This open the gates of hell for me. You have to remember that if he didnt have a girlfriend I would most likely hit on him.
Well, I really dont think she cares all that much that he has a girlfriend and wants him. But really she shouldnt since she is in, what I would consider, a serious relationship. And since she knows that I wanted him at one time, she thinks its ok to tell me how she wants him. I am his friend and a much closer friend with him than her. OMGoodness.......She gets upset, like a girlfriend, when hes talking to other girls. Always trying to find out from me what hes been up to. Im not going to say anything, its not my place to. I have been put into a position by this girl, on more than one occassion, to where I felt like a piece of crap because I dare hang out with him. What the hell kind of shit is that. And there have been acouple of times where she full out said they did things that they didnt do! And reason I had to rant about this tonight is because she pulled her shit again. Caught me on another website and was telling me how she had a talk with him about his girlfriend. What the hell am I suppose to say to that? So I just have to say "yeah" and thank god she stopped and said the story was too long. But strangest thing was it was like I could see the look on her face like, maybe I should keep my mouth shut. LOL Ok I think Im feeling better about the subject for the moment!!